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Getting to that place where you are comfortable.

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by TrevinMichael, Jul 15, 2018.

  1. TrevinMichael

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    Sometimes the journey is more within and not with out.

    Getting to the place where you love you and love who you are can take a while.

    Being the person you want to become is really the key.

    If you aim to be the one you want you end up the one you want to be.
     
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    Trevin....It seems lately that I have agreed with you several times! Before I accepted myself I went through many years of depression, shame and guilt. That lead to a lot of self-hate. Even after I came out to myself it took time to reconcile all the ugly thoughts that were still hiding in my head. A great therapist was a huge part of finally learning to love myself. It was something that I just couldn't work out on my own. I'm very happy to say that for a while now I've come to kinda like the guy I see in the mirror!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    I am so glad you are doing better with this. I had to get rid of a lot of people that just were not good for me over the years.

    I am very happy with were I am now.