Hello all, I've had a sexual fantasy since I was a teenager, and I want to know how I can get rid of it now. Every time I masturbate, I'm thinking about something surrounding this fantasy, and I want to stop. I want to just think about normal love-making when I masturbate. I'm wondering if, to get it out of my system, I should just live it out with a stranger found on a classified site or what. I have my reservations about that... mainly because of safety, and secondly, because I will feel disgusting afterward.
It doesn't sound as if you are comfortable with the fantasy. Is it dangerous to you or your partner? Does it involve people who cannot consent, like minors? Living the fantasy out may not offer the relief you expect. Maybe try to find a therapist to talk this over with?
