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Gays dating FTMs?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Cynder, Jun 17, 2013.

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  1. pansexualpanda7

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    Genitals don't matter to me when it comes to relationships. Romantic ones, at least. Sexual ones, I'm only sexually attracted to cisgender girls. Romantically it can be anyone, no matter their parts. I'm more attracted to personality tbh.
     
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    Wouldn't get in the way. As long as they had a nice personality i would be ok with it.
     
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    I don't see why not.
     
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    As long as they are okay with me as a cis male, sure, why not?
     
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    Well, as a gay trans guy, nah, I wouldn't date another trans guy. Well, most likely at least? I mean, heck, I've had crushes on trans guys before, so maybe one day one will come along I'll just fall head over heals for. But I'm just REALLY into penis and am pretty repulsed by vaginas.

    But I mean, still, maybe? I'd probably have to have an open relationship just to get the D sometimes. Even with a cis guy, I'm pretty into open relationships. My sex drive, 'specially for a guy on T, is super low, so it's not like I need sex all the time. Just sometimes.

    Sex and genitals is like, hardly anything in a relationship in the long run, so really, who the fuck knows what I'd do if faced with a trans guy I was crazy about. I can think and talk all I'd want about it, but actually faced with it, who knows.
     
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    I don't see why not, personality means more to me than physical stuff anyways.
     
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    Sorry this just seems a bit ambiguous to me, do you mean regard them as a male or as in a relationship with them? Do you not consider someone who is ftm to be male if they have a vagina? They can look however they want and it doesn't matter what body parts they have, if they identify as male then they are malet just like cis guys are male except they are afab/dfab.

    Sorry if I got the wrong end of the stick though :slight_smile:
     
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    Could I answer, since I prefer females?
    I'm not going to say anything about sex since:
    A. I'm 13, seriously?
    B. I'm pretty much asexual.

    I think appearance matters a lot, shallow as that may seem. I don't really like masculine-faced girls so MtF... probably not, sorry. FtM, though... if he's got a slightly feminine face still, yes. I really prefer feminine features and feminine guys can be really hot.
     
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    Well I'm FTM and 3 gay guys have said they're attracted to me (one was FTM himself) so if you're FTM and attracted to guys then gay guys are going to be your pool of interests.

    Physical body shouldn't matter but unfortunately it does to some people. There are a lot of people who accept identity over physical body though.
     
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    personality really attracts me as well, physical appearance was just a bonus :slight_smile:
     
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    That's the good thing about being pansexual ♥ I definitely would date someone who's MTF/FTM (pre-op or post-op). It would NOT bother me at all. I don't know why some people feel that dating someone who's transitioned would be weird or whatever their insane reason is... As long as they're okay with me being a cis female then it's all good :wink:
     
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    I just wonder how an FTM trans guy would feel with this. It's awesome that you have no qualms about dating someone, regardless of their genitalia, but I wonder if for some trans guys they would feel that someone who is bisexual or pansexual might not see them as fully male
     
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    Everyone is sexy!!!
     
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    O yisss!

    Arin Andrews <3
     
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    I actually feel that pansexual people get a person's gender a lot better than LGB people.
     
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    I'd certainly date a trans guy. Someone's sex and/or gender identity really doesn't matter to me when it comes to a relationship. As long as you're a good person with a great personality (and being cute certainly doesn't hurt) I have no issues.

    I'm dating a trans girl at the moment, by the way.
     
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    I would date a trans girl!
     
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    as a much younger fella I may have had some issues with it
    but now I've grown up
    hell yeah
    if they're nice
     
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    This is an old thread . Please lock it.
     
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    What's your stance on dating an FTM?
     
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