Gays dating FTMs?

I may or may not have a problem with it.

 

Actually it is totally possible for a gay guy to have a good sex life with an FTM. For starters there are some great websites that offer prosthetic penises (strap-ons) that are made out of a specially designed material which feels so much like a 'real' penis and some of them have a smaller one attached to the inside of the prosthetic so that the FTM transexual can have an orgasm too. (!)

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The operation is called a 'phalloplasty' and it can be horrendous and have a lot of complications too, the doctors themselves say that is is highly invasive. Not to mention the scarring (they have to remove a large area of skin from the person's forearm).

 

Sure! Yeah!

I've been with both men and women, so as long as the person is someone I can relate to and enjoy being with, it's a yes from me.

 

I'd be willing to date a MTF or FTM, pre-op or post-op if they seem like the right person. Really, we all have the same parts down below (ie penis=clitoris). They just may be arranged differently.

 

I think I would. Pre or post op.

 

I'm a transman myself and I'd have no problem dating another transman. In fact I might prefer a transman...he might be a little more understanding.

 

I'd like to say "yes", because as anyone who's seen me around here at all knows, I am extremely supportive of the trans* community, but the reality is, I don't know. I'd have a lot of definite reservations. The bedroom being just one of many, the others being more or less deeply personal.

I dunno. I am an open minded person. Transmen are just guys, I like guys, so if I met one I was attracted to and who was into me, I'd probably be willing to explore it. But I personally feel like it probably wouldn't work, and I'd *prefer* to stick with cis gay guys.

Hope this doesn't offend anyone.

 

Um.... Isn't that an oxymoron?

Same here. The important thing is that our personalities mesh well.

 

I wouldn't mind if my crush ended up being trans*, but I'm bi so I guess that doesn't really count.

 

I have crushed on FTM people before, there is one in particular I would still date in a heartbeat if he ever became available haha

 

Yes, it is. I dunno why I said that. *is confused*

 

I am seeing someone who is in the very beginning stage of transitioning (MtF)

 

I guess I would, but it depends, just like with everyone else. If this FTM happened to be really cute with a good personality, it really wouldn't matter to me if they used to be a woman.

 

Sure, I have found a few trans-guys sexy, but of course it all depends on the guy in question of course.

 

Male, female; cis, trans; pre-op, post-op; it makes no difference to me.

 

I would give them just as much chance as any other guy.

But as with everyone for me, it'd depend on quite a few factors.

Also, why did someone bump a thread that's a couple months old when another thread of the same topic was made a couple weeks ago? o_o Oh well, still giving same opinion.

 

It would depend on other things, but if we were compatible in every other way I certainly wouldn't let that be the one fact stopping me I suppose.

 

I like Gay FTM's and find them attractive post op top with treatments. Unfortunately, It's hard to find one I like. Gay FTM's tend to like effeminate men and I am a masculine gay male looking for other masculine gay males. So they don't tend to go for my type to much. So yes, I would definitely date the right one if he didn't want me to be his submissive little thing. Effeminate is definitely something I am not. :dry:

 

There's no way I'd rule it out, but I don't know how it'd turn out (I haven't even dated a cis-guy yet).

A relationship will involve about less than 5% genitalia and 95% other aspects of the person. I don't think what he's got between his legs will be the deciding factor if I already like him.

 

Well, as I am trans myself, I guess I don't really count too much. But I would say I would absolutely not have any problem dating another trans woman.


I gotta say, seeing all the positive responses from cis people is really heartening though.