Honestly had a pretty bad childhood, so the trauma of that, my own poor response to it etc, im 27 and only really starting to reach a point where im healed enough to be like, a whole person, and part of that includes an actually integrated sexuality and knowing yourself, so, you know, im gay. I knew it for a while but i was way too damaged to do anything about it. On that note, how the fuck do you meet people? I'd be far more comfortable doing it online, but gay chatrooms seem to be a dated 90s thing, ###### is a whorehouse and meeting people in 'gay spaces' [??] seems like a college era thing. I dont have an LGBT campus to go to, im an adult. So where do I meet people not to fuck but to actually talk, in a non pressured way, and just get to know people?