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Gay Dreams

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SGee, Nov 30, 2020.

  1. SGee

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    Hope this is the right place to post this.

    Woke up at 4:30 am today after the most intense gay dreams ever. Shocked me because I’ve never had anything like this happen.

    Im 48, male and had a gay experience at 13 but have suppressed those feelings until about three years ago.

    Since coming on forums like this Ive noticed how at ease Ive become about my sexuality. The fact that my dreams are becoming about sexual with men makes me realize just how much.
     
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    This is the same for me. I have been experiencing vivid dreams in the past few months. In the past, I had rarely remembered my dreams at all. But I have remembered several recently, all of them in some way connected with my sexuality. All of them gay. And all of them with guys that I have known over the years. They have been positive. I wake up feeling good. One however, did bother me. I was with a guy from my high school class. I was older, in my 20s maybe. I couldn’t understand how I could be seeing him, how we could be having sex together. Because I know (and I knew in my dream) that he committed suicide while he was in college. I woke up confused. It kind of shook me up.
     
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    This part of the process of coming to terms with yourself. There's a conscious as well as an unconscious piece to it. Sounds like your unconscious is letting more info up into your conscious, and I'd say that's a good thing!
     
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    I rarely have sexual dreams at all but recently had a super hot gay one.
     
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    Wow - such an intense dream. Seems like there were deep feelings for your late friend.
     
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    I agree! I sense a deeper transformation happening
     
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    I love it when that happens
     
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    Hello All.....I went through a time when I had quite a few very sexual gay dreams. In the end, it turned out that they were suppressed memories...it's a rather long story. The point is that I had reached a place in acceptance of my sexuality that I was finally able to resolve the issues that caused the memory suppression in the first place. It was a bitter-sweet experience. I'm glad to have the memories back even though it was very difficult at first. I have an incredible therapist that really helped me through that time. I wonder if, like me, has your brain/mind been trying to help you resolve something from the past? I know many of us here on LGBT Later in Life have pushed the difficult times away from us as a survival method when society around us rejected us or our relationships. If you have the chance to talk about this with a therapist I think it would be helpful. Keep us updated on how this resolves, we do care!!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    I had a gay sexual experience when I was 13 and tried to forget it right after it happened because it shocked me how good it felt. Its kinda complicated because it was with my brother.
    So yes you are right
     
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    I have some really good gay dreams. I think because I’m still in hiding that when I dream my subconscious comes awake and let’s me live my true life. I wake up real tired.
     
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    I had some weird gay dreams. They were...very weird. :confused: