One of the hardest and most painful things I've learned the last 3 to 4 years is that friends are dynamic not static. What does this statement mean? Dynamic friends, even good ones, will come and go. Static, means friends for life which is rare. Can static mean like family members? Maybe but not guaranteed. Some family members go. Why do I write this in this post. Well I've had straight friends completely dump me since coming out to them. It's just a fact of life.