Hey, after a night out last month we were sleeping on a friends floor and I woke up with one of my good friends rummaging about in my boxers! I am gay, but not out to anyone. He is a good friend who is reasonably camp by nature but only in the way he talks. He also had a girlfriend up until a month ago, so everyone assumed he was straight. Anyway, this was obviously a bit of a shock, so not sure what to do, and after a few minutes consideration I turned on my side thinking he would stop. but he kept at it. I was still pretty drunk so I was thinking ' do I just turn around and make out with him...' (very glad now i didn't pursue that!) but in the end I just let him continue and pretended to still be asleep. It wasn't like I didn't enjoy it a bit. Basically the problem is, I don't know whether to talk to him about it. i can't help but think he probably regrets it and is worried i was awake. I don't really want to have anything physical with him but I think we could be great support for each other! But how the hell do I raise it without embarrassing him?