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First Kiss

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sen1234, Nov 7, 2016.

  1. Sen1234

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    What was your first kiss like? I still haven't had mine yet and am kind of embarrassed about that. I'm also really nervous about when I do have it.
     
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    I haven't had mine either. I'm embarrassed by it too but we really shouldn't be. Films like Superbad paint teens as sexed up when it's really not accurate at all.
     
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    Horrible- I walked right into some dude and accidentally kissed him. XD I mean, it wasn't bad by itself, but it wasn't good either... That, and then my first kiss that I had ON PURPOSE was bad... I don't know what it is, but kissing just seems boring to me. :/ That's just me though.
     
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    It was sloppy. It wasn't bad but it wasn't good either.
     
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    Now what if the other person has already had their first kiss and actually been in a full relationship? Does that make it easier or harder for me?
     
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    Super awkward. Neither of us knew how to kiss.
    Edit: Seneca, I just saw your post. I think that the other person already knowing how to kiss would greatly reduce the awkwardness.
     
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    I lucked out. The individual who gave me my first kiss was a very good kisser.
     
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    My first "straight" kiss was when I was 12. It was a dare, but we ended up kissing again and again. First just pecks, then proper make-out. My first same-sex kiss - make out session(s) - was when I was 16. Both those experiences were very good :kiss:
     
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    Wow.... I was 14, Tim was a neighborhood boy that I liked. We always hung out together and at park in Tucson we kissed. Neither of us knew a thing about what we were doing but it was fun, awkward and sloppy. Now... my first girl girl kiss was just about 9 months ago and we've been practicing every day/night. These are so much more fun.
     
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    Mine was really stupid, but funny now that I look back on it. :grin: I was 9 and he was 8. we admitted to liking each other, and then he asked me if I wanted to kiss him and nine-year-old me was like, "Sure!"

    ..... He was a REALLY bad kisser....

    so yeah... But don't feel bad that you haven't had your first kiss. That means you can save it for the person you end up with. I have a friend who's saving her first kiss for her wedding day(because she plans on getting married someday...). You'll be just fine, fam. :icon_wink
     
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    I had my first kiss with a guy in October at 24, about 3 months after I came out this year. It was SO awkward to begin with lol! We finished watching a movie, and my poor soul initiated the kiss even though I never kissed before, and I immediately pulled back out of embarrassment. He said I kissed like I never kissed anybody before. I told him, yeah I haven't kissed anybody before. I then looked at him and said, and I quote, "Why don't you teach me?" I thought to myself, really?! Did I just say "Why don't you teach me"?! -facepalm- OMG, I cringe at my lines sometimes! LOL I can't believe I even said that! The kiss was fine after that, but still was awkward leading up to it. xD

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    And don't feel too embarrassed about not having your first kiss yet. I had mine at 24 years old, even though it was not planned that day and I didn't expect to kiss. It was just random.
     
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    I feel like such a loser, I'm 25 and have never kissed anyone. Guess I just never found someone that I would like to try that with(well without worrying about ruining a friendship anyways)...
     
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    First straight kiss was when I was 15 or something like that during a game of truth or dare. Absolutely sucked. It was like one of the parasites from the Alien series trying to force its way down my throat and lay eggs.

    First kiss with a guy I was at a party and got too hammered to drive home. So as I'm crashing on the couch with this other guy fading in and out of consciousness, he gets a little handsy and shit went down. Nothing beyond kissing though, once the puking started the mood kind of died.

    So in a nutshell:
    first straight kiss: 0/10
    first gay kiss: 8/10

    P.S. Don't fret about not kissing yet. My first "real kiss" (e.g. not a dare or a bet) wasn't until I was 19. You're young, you got time, keep your head up bud :slight_smile:
     
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    I've never been kissed, so I can't answer this yet...
     
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    It was a peck.
     
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    Opposite sex was disgusting, wet and slobbery
    Same sex, i saw stars it was the best kiss i ever had
     
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    It wasn't super fun. Felt like the person I was kissing was trying to eat my entire face while slobbering all over me :grin:
     
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    If you count being kissed by a drunk gay guy at a party, it was meh--I didn't really reciprocate at all. Otherwise I haven't had a proper first kiss and I'm 25.
     
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    Firstly, IT WAS AMAZIIING. It was with a guy I have never seen before and I never saw him again. But the looking, the leaning in --- and just BOOM. Full of passion and beauty,it was just a-ma-zıııng.

    I think it will just make it better to have a more experienced person in a relationship. It would be better than just finding out things as you go. Just dont let him/her push you to something :slight_smile: