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First Date!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by CosmicWolf, Oct 1, 2018.

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  1. Jakebusman

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    Any dates soon ?
     
  2. Jakebusman

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    Don't see how you cuddle at school ?
     
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    I'm sorry to hear that you've been feeling unwell. But, it sounds like your girlfriend is looking out for you, so that's always a good thing. I hope you get better soon, and that you'll have more cute stories that you're willing to share with us! :slight_smile:
     
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    Nothing planned right now, weather has been shit lately and I've been really busy with school cuz of missing those days when I was sick. I hope to do something this coming week though.
    I'm going Christmas shopping this weekend with a friend. Gonna pick out something nice for my gf.

    Well I mean it wasn't really a traditional cuddle... I put my head on her shoulder, she rested her head on-top of mine, she had her arm around me, I had my hand resting on her thigh, it was like a sitting cuddle. And we had a blanket so it was nice and cozy. We were in a corner too so it wasn't too public.
     
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    I'm starting to feel better now, still not 100% but I'm getting there.
     
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    It's nice you two can show affection at school
     
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    How you 2 been ?
     
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    We have been doing good. Haven't been able to do anything outside of school for a bit though. I was supposed to go to her place again this weekend but my dad changed his plans and now is going to be down in the city so now I don't have a drive. Hopefully we can do something next week though.
     
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    You still show affection at school
     
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    Hey I just read through this thread, just wanted to say that you and your girlfriend are super cute! I actually have a first date with a girl to the movies this weekend and I’m super nervous so this thread is kinda reassuring. Do you have any advice for the first date and initiating contact? Wishing you and your girl all the best! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hopefully you 2 are okay haven't heard from you in a while
     
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    My advice for the first date and initiating contact is to go for it early. If you wait until later into the date to touch it just gets more and more awkward. So if you break the touch barrier early it will become normal. Simple things like holding hands or hugging them when you meet them and say goodbye are great ways to initiate contact on the first date. And of course if it feels right you can kiss them goodbye.
     
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    We are doing great, I am actually going to her place this Sunday. We haven't been on any more dates mainly due to transportation issues, but we have been spending lunches together and texting every night. Lol the last few nights we have been texting until around 1am. I suppose it would be considered sexting at this point. Turns out I'm pretty good at it.
    Anyways, I can't wait for the weekend, finally gonna get some time alone with her.
    Oh and we also exchanged hoodies. Hers is a bit small for me but that doesn't really matter cuz it still smells like her. This time though I gave her a blue hoodie so if her dye rubs off it isn't an issue. It's become the weekly thing now to provide her with one of my hoodies. She also wears that heart necklace that I gave her every day.
     
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    Ah....this is all so beautiful I love it x x
     
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    It always makes me so happy to see an update about you two. The whole thing about giving her a hoodie every week is so freaking cute, and it's something I can relate to.

    I hope you two enjoy your time together this weekend. As always, I'd love to hear about it, so long as you're comfortable sharing, of course. Good luck with this Sunday! :relaxed:
     
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    I had a great time today,
    We watched Christmas movies (Home Alone and Elf) and made cinnamon rolls (just like the pre packaged ones). We also watched a bunch of random YouTube videos in her room and cuddled, things got pretty intimate. We also exchanged Christmas gifts. She got me a nice black and yellow plaid shirt. I gave her a blanket and some chocolate.
     
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    So cute bet you got more kisses
     
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    Glad you are keeping each other warm. :kiss_ww:
     
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    I'm jelious, only joking but yeah lol...happy for you both x x x
     
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    I sure did :slight_smile:
     
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