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First Consensual Same Sex Experience (Poll)

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BiBoyToy, Feb 24, 2021.

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How old were you when you had your first consensual same sex experience?

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  3. 18-21

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  5. 26-30

  6. 31-35

  7. 36-40

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  1. meltyblood

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    I was 15 or 16. It happened with my partner (we're still together) and coincidentally that was when I lost my virginity lol. It was sweet and nice to remember back on, despite the location not being... very romantic. (It was a public location.)
     
  2. BiBoyToy

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    Not really, we were both pretty good at being secretive. We grew up in a conservative community and somewhat religious families so we knew we needed to keep it a secret. However, I'm sure a few people in his family and a few people in my family had their suspicions. His older sister would always makes jokes that she knew we were gay for each other but we naturally always denied it. I'm also sure a few neighbors, etc. saw us holding hands walking home from school.

    We were home alone a lot so I always had the chance to make out with him and give him oral without worrying about getting caught. The closest we ever got to getting caught was when we started doing things at school. I'm trying to keep this appropriate so I won't go into too much detail, but a teacher almost caught me giving him oral in the bathroom. He walked in right as we were walking out of the stall and just told us to get to class.

    I'm out to all my older siblings (I'm the youngest) now and told one of them about everything and he said we wasn't surprised and always kind of had an idea about us but never said much.
     
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    I was 17 and it was after school at his house. I remember wanting to get with him again but it never happen.
     
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    Had to be early 20s.
     
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    It had to be hard to hide this once you got together...I'm sure the teacher understood you were a couple when he discovered you two. I'm so glad you came out to your family.
     
  6. Tikimon20

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    Sometimes we would find a place to make out during lunch hour, but we could get pretty careless by the afternoon.
     
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    I've never had any explicitly sexual experiences, but my first some-what intimate experience with another girl was when I was fourteen. I had a close female friend who went to a theater camp with me, and we shared a dressing room. We would kind of huddle in the corner and caress each other, and I got to feel up her breasts, haha.
     
  8. BiBoyToy

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    @Tikimon20, it definitely was hard, but hiding it kind of came natural for whatever reason. But yea, I'm sure he definitely knew. Looking back, I think a ton of people knew we were bestfriends with benefits, or at least had an idea. Who knows though, maybe I'm just being paranoid, haha...
     
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    If you don't mind me asking, did that happen multiple times?
     
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    51, last year. It was and still is good. We have a FWB relationship. I would consider him my best friend, there is a lot more than just sex. That being said it really is a friends with benefits deal. There is mutual caring and respect, but not a romantic type love. We can hang and enjoy hiking, camping, and can talk politics without getting all pushed out of shape. Amazing for a conservative and a liberal. Not gonna say which is which though! :laughing: