From a very early age I knew that I was attracted to other boys. The first time I told someone was in the fifth grade but didn't really start coming out to friends and family until high school. When I got to college, however, things began to change. I always identified with feminine aspects of identity but never occurred to me that might mean something else entirely. As time has gone on since college over the past five or six years I am starting to see that being a transgender female may very well be who I am. Coming out as a gay man was hard enough. It scares me to think that maybe I wasn't gay all along. Maybe I was simply a straight trans woman. Has anyone else struggled with figuring out whether it is their sexuality or their gender identity that is the true thing they are dealing with?