Hey everyone, There is something that has been confusing me for some time now. I am biologically male and identify as a transwoman. I always picture myself as being female in my mind. Furthermore, I feel attracted to women but not men. Yet I sometimes fantasize about engaging in sexual activities with a man with my imagined female body when feeling horny. This happens just as much as fantasizing about performing such acts with women. How I can only be attracted to women as a person and yet can picture myself in such a manner with people of either sex? It seems very odd, and it makes me wonder what it says about me. Could someone please help me out with my understandings? I would appreciate it.
Based on what you said here it's possible that you are sexually attracted to both genders but romantically attracted to women. Just a thought -Gus
Nothing is completely odd, much probably you imagine yourself with guys too just for the "bed things", but you feel more comfortable with girls about having a longterm relationship. I don't see it like a weird thing, if you think that a woman could still be the one who could give you emotions while on a relationship, then I wouoldn't take it as a negative thing. In case, you can just try and have a relationship with a guy too, to see if you feel the same emotions or not.
Thank you everyone for your help with this. I certainly see where you all are coming from. I feel that the main reason I was confused was that I was equating romantic attraction with sexual attraction. Your responses have helped me understand that. It also makes me want to consider experimenting some.