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Ever had an inappropriate crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by LaEsmeralda, May 9, 2015.

  1. TeddyV

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    YES, MISTERTINKLES :roflmao:

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    Yes... my history teacher... he's got a behind as slap-able as Rick Santorum's face. And he was taller than me, so that's a plus. I believe he was 29 and I was 16.
     
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    Haha! Thanks for being so honest, Golgari. When I went to my grandmothers funeral like 10 years ago, I noticed a guy who I thought was really cute. Later he was introduced to me as my first cousin who I had never met before. Oh the shame!
     
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    I've had inappropriate crushes everywhere, from male high school teachers to one of my closest female friends (who is catholic) to my female chemistry lab instructor (I shamelessly flirted, she probably thinks I'm crazy. Oh hey, now that I think about, she was catholic too. I must have a thing for Catholics :0)
     
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    Twice. On my friends' boyfriends. I felt really bad for it, but they were just so... hot. :icon_redf
     
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    Yes...One of my English supply teachers when I was about 14...He was in for 4 weeks and damn he has sexy eyes! I think I failed repressing my sexuality as a teen....
     
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    Oooooohhhhhh yessssssss.. *Counts on fingers-* *runs out of fingers*
    Right now, all of them, absolutely all of them, and right now especially.
     
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    Oh yes, so many... > <
     
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    There's a much older woman I've met through friends. At the party where we first met, I got the impression she was coming on to me until she realised how much younger I am than her. She has a girlfriend now, anyway. But she is absolutely gorgeous, with a very sexy Northern accent, same politics as me, same interests - basically my perfect woman but too old for me! I've decided I just need to meet some almost exact version of her but aged between 30 - 40!
     
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    yes, and I still do.
    Not a sexual crush mind you, but a love her to death and just want to hold her for ever type of crush.
     
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    Yep, One was a mummy who had just had twins and a fella...
     
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    At this point, I am rejecting the thought that I have ever had an inappropriate crush. Yes, I've had crushes on guys with whom a relationship would not be appropriate. But I won't shame myself by labelling them "inappropriate"--since the crush is something beyond my conscious control. Now if I were to act on any of these--and I never have--that would be a different matter.

    As for crushes on guys with whom a relationship would be inappropriate...well, there is a list. I'm not sure the EC servers have enough disk space for it all. :lol:

    Many of what was almost certainly crushes I recall occurred in junior high PE locker room. The one that would be the least appropriate from a view of having a relationship was one of the teacher's assistants. He was older (9th grade when I was in 7th), and undoubtedly very straight. At the time, he was saving money to hire a prostitute. But I was interested in him, and not because I thought he'd have interesting views on the current situation in the USSR. No, he had a good looking body.

    Since that time, I've had lots of crushes on guys that would not be appropriate relationship material:
    • At least one high school teacher.
    • A man I met at a church. It turned out he was A) married and B) married to the pastor.
    • Worse than the husband of a pastor, there was a crush on a pastor.
    • When I first started swimming laps in my late 20s, I had a crush on a younger, college aged lifeguard I encountered. (Our age gap wasn't that great, but...there was a huge gap in terms of life experience.)
    • And...well, the list goes on and on and on...
     
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    Don't think I have. The closest I've ever come is either celebrities or people who are already taken.
     
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    I had a crush on an 18 year old senior guy who was straight. I could make a large list of reasons why that's a bad idea