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Ever had an inappropriate crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by LaEsmeralda, May 9, 2015.

  1. PlantSoul

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    Ah, so many! They were all older than me.

    - camp counsellors (male and female)
    - this older woman at church, who was more than likely gay.
    - I went to a Catholic school for 1st grade and of all things, I ended up getting a crush on one of my classmates' MOTHER!!!!! I don't think that I had enough sense to keep it on the down low to avoid rousing suspicion. >_<
     
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    Yep a few teachers in high school and a fifteen year old girl when I was 18.
     
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    Yes. When I was 22, I had a crush on a 16 year old woman...

    But I did the correct thing and distanced myself from her.
     
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    I don't "crush" too often. That requires a certain level of mm-damn.

    But I've had people warm my heart, to where I think fonder of them than others. Would any of these be inappropriate? Hm...

    I've had two teachers, a male and a female, that I didn't mind too much. Not sure if I'd say I romantically pined for them, but I did like them a little. The male teacher didn't tolerate interruptions, and I respected him a little. He was also one of the better History teachers, too, which helped his appeal. As for the woman, she used to actually comment on some of my writings or drawings, with encouraging things. Thinking back, she may be the reason I still pursue artistic endeavors, or at least the spark that set me off, LOL.
     
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    Well if by "inappropriate" you mean up to the point where I wanted to bang the guy, then yes...Middle School, hot jock, flip-flop, same story I've told countless times on this forum...
     
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    I feel like this is so cliche... But my physics teacher.
    He's like a college frat boy who had the exact same music taste and humor as me. HE BROUGHT HIS VINYL TURN TABLE INTO THE CLASSROOM TO PLAY A CAPITAL CITIES VINYL.
    How could that not be love at first sight?
     
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    OH GOD I had a crush on a cross-country coach. He would talk to me randomly and lord he was cute. He was only 5 years older than me though. I almost decided to take up running.

    He was fired for sending inappropriate pictures to students that weren't me.
     
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    Man, my whole life is an inappropriate crush haha... but seriously, it's not my fault my school has a tendency to hire extremely attractive teachers. Also, I'm kind of in a relationship with a man that is 31 years older than me, married, and has two children. It's online, so it's not as bad, but yeah... inappropriate...
    And then I have this humongous crush on this straight Islamic girl... talk about unrequited love :dry::dry:
     
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    Yes, I had/have a crush on my cousin's bf. She's very attractive in her own right(not that I am obsessed with her, b/c I saw her grow up and everything), so she gets the good looking guys. This latest one...oh wow. He could be a model. And he's a pizza guy. LOL.

    The other one was when I was 18 and a senior, I wanted to do all sorts of things with this guy who was 16 and in my brother's class. I never did though. I was the manager on the basketball team, and he showed me this scar on his side. I just couldn't say much of anything. I probably looked like I had seen a ghost because I realized how turned on I was. The scar wasn't that bad, but I have this thing for skinny guy's hips and his skin was perfect otherwise. I drove him back to the school from a baseball game, and it took every bit to not want to touch him. He was asking me if I had seen girls naked. In my head I'm like, "Ask him about guys or something..." Thankfully, I had self control that was required as I went to a Christian school and was a month away from graduating.
     
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    It's amazing that people will sacrifice their jobs for this sort of thing. It seems like you hear this every other day.

    I've had several. Suits with wedding bands were and are off-limits. There was a guy sort of like this I'd see on my morning commute after parking, with both of us frequently crossing paths.

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    He was about 10 or so years older than me. Since he looked sort of like this, who cares? But, he had a wife and kids, so it was a situation to forget about.
     
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    I had a crush on my male cousin. Ewwwwwwwwww
     
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    I've had a crush on my babysitter, and my Dad's physical trainer who's also a model... *hides behind bush*
     
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    Ugh, yeah. I probably have the worst one in this entire thread, but I'm not gonna go into it.
     
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    I'm always attracted to unavailable people. More recently I've noticed an attraction to older (10-15 years older?) women..
     
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    arfff

    my crush right now is my friend that happen to be my gym buddy
    he have a GF ofc,

    we mock, hit and compliment each other like every session
    i like him better on monday because when he spot me during bench press and if i try "hard enough" i can smell his man stuff on his crotch... just a couple of innocent sniff then i pretend to fix my position, nothing more

    well in my headspace sniffing already "more" tho
     
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    If this thread were in the anonymous section, I can imagine the responses.

    But as far as I know, it's a relatively "No".
     
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    I guess my most inappropriate crush was on a teacher (or two) at school... Is it bad that if I think I was more confident and open that I could have actually acted upon it? LOL haha...

    Also a counsellor I was seeing a couple of years ago that was straight, I know that he was very intrigued by my personality (me) but I didn't say anything and nothing came of it, so whatever *shrugs*.
     
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    I had a crush on two teachers at the schools I went to. I forgot what one of them did, but the other was my 7th grade English teacher. Besides that, I can't think of any that would be "inappropriate".
     
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    There was a few inappropriate crushes in the past but lets not get into detail about those... I have a minor crush on my PE Teacher right now
     
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    I've had crushes on numerous female teachers and professors