Hi Everyone, So, I had this really uncomfortable dream a couple days ago that really disturbed me. I should start off by saying that, as far as I'm aware, I'm a 100% gay man. I've never been attracted to a woman in my life and never had a sexual or romantic urge to get involved with a member of the opposite sex. I'm completed closeted, so I've never had sexual or romantic contact of any form with a member of either sex. Basically, I had this dream where I was lying in bed with a group of people, all of which I work with. One of them is a woman, and for some reason, in this dream she suddenly started rubbing up against me and moaning until she climaxed. I pretended to be asleep. In the dream I wasn't sure if she had a crush on me or what (I'm pretty sure she doesn't in real life). Anyway, I can't figure out what this dream is supposed to mean. As far as I know I don't have any bisexual tendencies. I've never thought this girl was attractive one bit, which makes me even more confused. She's not particularly beautiful. I would actually love to be bisexual because that would mean I could enter a heterosexual relationship with no problem. Honestly, I've had more dreams like this than ones where I actually engage sexually with another guy. This has always frustrated me because those are the kinds of dreams I want to have. What do you guys think? Are these dreams just my subconscious expressing how uncomfortable sexually around women? I mean, I don't what it's like for other gay guys, but I doubt I could ever seriously get an erection with a woman. It just seems impossible. I'm pretty much exclusively sexually and romantically drawn to men. Could these dreams mean I'd a latent bisexual? They happen pretty infrequently, but they do they kind upset me.
I wouldn't put much stock in it. Maybe your brain was just playing with the idea of you being straight/bisexual.
Yeah, I think your subconscious is just playing around. I've had dreams about having sex before, whereas in reality I'm not interested in it in the slightest. I actually find the idea repulsive.
Having the occasional dream about women doesn't mean you're attracted enough to them to want a relationship or sex with them. I agree with everyone else and say not to worry about it.
