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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Radioactive Bi, May 2, 2014.

  1. Radioactive Bi

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    Do you want to have children in the future and do you actually see yourself having any?

    For those in same sex relationships, how do you feel you will achieve this? Do you have a preferred way?

    For example,
    Adoption/fostering
    Artificial insemination
    Surrogacy
    Etc

    Also, another thought. For those who homosexual, would you have sex with someone of the opposite sex in order to have children or would you only do artificial insemination? (This is assuming the other person, sperm doner or surrogate, was willing to give up the child completely to you and your partner).

    What are your thoughts?

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
  2. Caillin

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    Nah I dont really see myself having kids for multiple reasons First off I dont really like kids to be honest but if I ever changed my mind (I probably wont since I have no paternal instincts my first thought when a baby cries is to leave the room :lol:slight_smile:id probably wouldn't anyway since adoption can be a long process and surrogacy gets expensive. So I don't see myself ever having kids.
     
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    I want kids
    If with a man the old fashioned way
    If with a woman artificial or adoption
    Either way
     
  4. Higs

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    Considering how hard was my life so far, and it definitely wasn't the hardest out there some people have it way worse than me, I wouldn't dare bring any kids into this F'ed up world.
    Adoption. I don't see myself adopting but my mind could change in the future.. it's definitely not off the list
     
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    I do not want kids. I had thought about this for a really long time..nope.
     
  6. FireSmoke

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    No, absolutely not. I hate kids and I guess I can't be a good father.
     
  7. TheStudent

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    Nah. I don't think I'll ever want the responsibility or ever be able to tolerate children enough to be a father.
     
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    I'm torn. I am excellent with children...I have the potential to be an amazing mother BUT it's a lot of stress...I would have to be absolutely certain it was financially viable and that I had a partner who pulled their weight...

    Either way I'd only ever adopt or foster.
     
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    I can't imagine me as a mother, the idea seems foreign to me, even though I have a very little sister but, some day, I may feel "it's time" to do it...
    I suppose I think I'm not patient enough but, if truly wanted to have a child, I would try hard to be a good parent.
    Maybe I'd prefer adoption, whether I'm with a man or a woman.
     
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    I am going to adopt.
     
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    Nope. I'll have a cat instead, cats are better.
     
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    I've always wanted children so I'll have them one day no matter what it takes, even if I have to move to an other country. The laws here are just ridiculous.
     
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    no chance at all...ever

    To the point that I have been snipped to make sure
     
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    I'm open to the idea of children, but I would want to be in a position where I would be able to fully support them and give them everything that they needed. At the moment, I'm young and I'm really happy with life without children, but who knows one day it may happen. I would never close my mind completely to it though. So we shall wait and see!
     
  15. Miles16

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    Hell to the no
     
  16. Best of Both

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    Don't want any
     
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    If I do I would not want to be the biological father
     
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    I really really adore and want children~ i want two girls and i kind of want them to be mine but i would adopt if my husband wanted to instead of surrogate or other methods ^.^
     
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    No kids for me but I am a great aunt :slight_smile:
     
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    If I were to have kids I'd either adopt or do a surrogacy. I never ever ever want to become pregnant, I kind of have a fear for it, so that'd be the only way. :\