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Do you find yourself attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sugarcubeigloo, May 25, 2013.

  1. Miss Loopy

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    What do you mean attractive?

    I'm frickin' gorgeous.

    I'm kidding, I don't really look at myself physically as I'd imagine being a judgement cow.
     
  2. petitebrunette

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    No, not really.
     
  3. Chels

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    I think I'm definitely not attractive, but I have been called cute a bunch of times by both boys and girls. I guess it's because I look eternally 15-16 and don't wear makeup.

    All in all I do like my eyes, and i love my hair (black and curly), so I can't complain too much. All I gotta do is hit the gym, and stay away from people that are too tall, since I'm too short, and I'll be fine.
     
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    It depends on the day. Some days I really hate myself, and let myself know that. And other days I think I'm pretty. I like my eyes, and I have decent skin. The only thing I really don't like is my body. But that's improving everyday. And I've come along from where I was. Which was basically hating myself everyday.
     
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    Depends on the day, I have some pretty bad self image issues, so one day I would rather cut my face off (not literally but just that level of self hate)

    And other days, well I think I am a supermodel strutting down the halls like I am where it is at LOL
     
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    I could really lose 30 pounds... so no, I find myself always urging to work out, but no motive.
     
  7. Data

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    If that's you in your profile pic, you are absolutely gorgeous. Truly, sincerely, you're very pretty.

    Now me, I find myself ok looking. I don't get told that I'm handsome, but I guess if others work like I do, someone could become attracted to me via my personality.

    My teeth really bug me. I had terrible teeth and got braces. Then i didn't wear my retainer and now they're buck again. :'(

    I like my body except for my lower belly pouch. Right above your pubic bone but below the belly button is where ALL of my excess fat goes right after I eat it. BOOM done. It's the other big issue that I have.

    I would be quite happy with a normal guy with faults and I just hope I find someone who wants the same.
     
  8. Purrnalist

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    Personality-wise, yes, physically not so much at the moment. I think I will find myself more attractive physically speaking at some point, after I've lost weight, gained muscle, been on t for some time et cetera.

    At the moment I'm just feeling completely hideous and sad because I honestly think I'm a half-decent person and would like to share lots of great things with people but I'm so insecure about my looks that it makes socialising very difficult for me. I don't think it's possible for anyone to find me attractive at the moment because of the way I look.
     
  9. iBlakexo

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    It's hard to say. Usually i would jump straight in and say 'no', however that is only because i hate my body and wish that i was fit. Sometimes when i look at photos taken from the neck up i feel like my facial features aren't all that bad.

    Personality wise, i think i'm quite attractive to most people. I'm kind, a good listener and have a good sense of humour. However, i'm quite unique when it comes to interests, musical taste etc. which probably lets me down a little. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm starting to sorta, slowly. The guy I keep talking to keeps telling me that I am. I do have my days where I feel like the big shot...but those happen rarely.
     
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    For the most part. My confidence has grown in my appearance since I'm mostly transitioned (besides T and surgery) as a guy, and people tell me i'm attractive often. The only thing I want is a male body. And I'm going to start working out and everything so I'm at least muscular. As for my personality it's okay, but I get too jealous.
     
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    My personality? I wouldn't say it's good or bad. I'm smart and somewhat witty, but I can't say I'm the nicest guy ever...
    As for appearances, NOPE. I ended up with some chick's body (Gender bender manga has lied to me; it's not cool at all!), I'm overweight (plus, weight loss = less estrogen!), and I'd look way too female if I started a social transition. I'm trying to become less sedantary and gain some muscle. Working my ass off will be worth it, even if it's only because of a sense of accomplishment.
     
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    Nope, not at all
     
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    I wouldn't say that I'm handsome, but I also wouldn't say I'm ugly. I dunno, I just don't have the highest opinion about how I look
     
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    Yes, a lot of people have told me that I could model if I wanted to. I spend a lot of time on my appearance and I am generally pretty proud of it.
     
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    On a good day? yes. I get a picture taken to commemorate it!
     
  17. Sometimes I feel like a supermodel, other times I look at myself in the mirror and I almost expect it to crack... it depends on the day I'm having.
     
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    Some parts of myself I really like. I like being mixed race which gives me my green eyes and olive skin. I love my sense of fashion. Personality wise, I like to know I work hard at school and am considered smart well I cherish being smart enough to know that then are many much more knowledgeable then I and when to listen. I also like that I look for the best in anyone I meet and don't hold grudges easily.

    But obviously there are days when all I notice is the bad and thats one of the parts I hate about myself the most. I hate when all I can see is that being mixed race gives me chubby cheeks and a child-like frame. I hate that somedays I think all the pretty clothes i my closet would look so much better on anyone else. I hate that sometimes I will just let myself feel small in a group more knowledgeable then I.

    I think the most relatable thing for everyone here, I hate that I am scared to let anyone know about me. Mostly because I love everyone else...so why can't I trust them enough to love me? :eusa_liar
     
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    Sometimes, when I have a good hair day (which seems to be more and more often these days)
     
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    Yeah...sometimes, if I'm having a good day.