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Do you find the opposite sex attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RainbowsFactory, Dec 23, 2016.

  1. AuroraBorealis

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    Sexually attractive? No. Handsome or nice looking? Yes, men can be nice looking.
     
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    Awww I find this so sweet. lol
     
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    I do find the opposite sex very attractivem, and very often.

    Though when I see a happy looking heterosexual couple who are very much in love, I, for some reason, can get extremely upset and a little depressed. maybe it's because it's something I know I'll never get to be.
     
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    Sexually, no. But I can appreciate a good lookin' dude.
     
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    Does it count if I think my male dog is cute? :lol:
     
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    I think you pretty much summed it up there.
     
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    I can definitely recognise when a man is good looking or has characteristics that I find attractive, but I know now that I'd never want to be with one romantically or sexually.
     
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    I'm a gay female and I find some men attractive, but not like to the point where I wanna have sex with them. It's like knowing when a pair of shoes looks good.
     
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    I appreciate when guys are attractive, but I'm not attracted to them.
     
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    It took me a long time to figure this out but this is how I feel about women too.
     
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    I find plenty of women aesthetically pleasing but I still don't have any urge to date or have sex with them.
     
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    Lol I'd think so :lol:
     
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    I am a guy and some girls might seem cute to me, but I DEFINITELY don't want to get laid with them.
     
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    Well yes, that's what a bi person is so :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    For the most part, no. I guess some women are very pretty, but in the end, they don't turn me on.
     
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    No one sexually. But any sex I can find attractive.
     
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    Are you all talking about aesthetic attraction? Personally, I'm rarely sexually attracted to anyone, but I can still look at people and think: "oh, they're good-looking". Like, my friend told me that I looked cute when I asked for her opinion on my outfit. I can look at my sister and recognise that she is very pretty, but I'm definitely not attracted to her! There's more than one type of attractiveness, and my own eyes are generally switched to see aesthetic, non-sexual beauty, what with me being demi and all.
     
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    Yep! but sadly all of the men i am interested in are very gay. I am attracted to the feminine energy. It's usually men who carry themselves in a more feminine way but have an androgynous look. The thing is they usually give me attention and swoon over me too but its never been anything past a make out session.
     
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    This. Just in gay form :grin:
     
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    I can completely relate to that reaction. I just don't get what girls see in guys.