Do people generally suspect you're gay?

Nope. they usually can't believe it. Yipee.

 

Nope, they usually don't know.

 

Nope. Most of my friends thought I was straight. XD

 

To my knowledge, no.

 

If you don't know me you wouldn't believe me really, so no...

 

Yes. XD.
For some its simply more obvious than others...
Except for me most guys don't guess that well. I'm sure plenty of people speculate, its just that the girls have tended to notice.

 

Apparently, I'm a walking fucking rainbow.

I go through so much to try and hide the fact that I have 'gay,' if you could even call them that, mannerisms and patterns, I'm blatantly obvious.

 

most friends knew or thought I was either bi or gay

Foxface

 

Nope! I think 99% of people that i have ever met think im straight and in.a way it gets really annoying!

 

Depends on the situation, really. I'm not gay - but bisexual can get labeled it if I'm out with one of my other bi/gay friends. I'm generally very close and touchy with them, whether we date/hookup or not.

There are times at bars we will be touchy/cuddly - last time my housemate and I went out (we aren't a couple, but we enjoy fooling around when we have nothing to do, lol), we were hanging with friends, and my buddy was leaning on me, and I had my arm around his chest - we got a few odd looks, but I don't give two shits.

If not for stuff like that, people have absolutely no idea I'm bisexual. I've been referred to as "the straightest guy I know" more times than I'd like to count.

 

At first glance, I come off as a "gentlemen" (other people's words, not mine); this is important because people think that I respect women too much to not hit on them and they don't think I'm gay for not being staring at every hot girl that walks by.

After a while, some may suspect because they might notice I don't gawk at hot girls or might notice me surreptitiously checking out a guy.

Another clue that might make people suspect I'm gay is that I'm 23 years old and I've never had a girlfriend.

Finally, I dress too nice for a straight guy, but so does my dad; that can make it seem normal for me.

All in all, I think 75% of people think I'm straight, 20% suspect I'm gay, and 5% "know" I'm gay, and not in the biblical sense but in the "I really think he's gay because he totally checked out that dude" kind of "know."

 

Only the girls tended to notice but there was a rumour spread by a boy about me being gay 3 years ago. Funnily enough, he just came out a day ago...

 

People only really get suspicious if I start having cryptic conversations with people who I am out to. Other than that, everyone I've tolddidnt have a clue. I mean, I don't think they were surprised, seeing as I've voiced my support for gay marriage and rights, but they've never been suspicious...

 

Most don't suspect I might be gay , I appear very normal . But some do if I were to confirm it they said I knew it

 

Anyone that knows me never suspected before i came out but people i meet tend to know quite quickly, especially gay guys. I really dont know why, they must see me checking out guys or just be very observant, cos i do tend to give it away now more than when i was closeted.

Funny thing was, when i came out one of my close friends said that all the gay guys (5 of them) they were out with thought i was gay and how ridiculous she thought tht was, i was just like, well im bi, so theyre close

Then again, i tend to get alot of homophobic abuse even though i act straight (last time i was in the pub with a pint watching the football), kinda baffles me...

 

I hope so. It's kind of hard to find a girlfriend if they think you're straight, y'know?

 

I think it's totally obvious for me. Everybody I've told thus far haven't been surprised in the slightest!