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Do I Pass? 2.0

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by DreamerBoy17, Nov 16, 2015.

  1. Hexagon

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    Ty :slight_smile: I was considering growing out a little bit of hair below the undercut, which might shift things a little. I think I come across as more male IRL cos of my body shape and voice, but tbh I'm more comfortable masculine rather than feminine.
     
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    Hey, so I'm trans girl who's been on hormones and blockers for three months and almost three weeks, and I have photos in my album back from before I started hormones up to recently, and I was just wondering if any of y'all see any changes?
     
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    Lots of changes I cant pinpoint them but they are definitely there
     
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    Don't worry about passing, honey. That's not what's important. Passing is about OTHER PEOPLE and their perceptions and what makes them comfortable. Your transition and your identity are about YOU and nobody else. Rather than asking "Do I pass?", try asking "Do I look fantastic?" because the answer to that question will always be yes. Dress for yourself. Pick your hairstyle for yourself. Do what makes you feel good.
     
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    Oh my gosh :slight_smile: I think I've seen you before, on the old thread, but wow. I barely recognised you at first :slight_smile: You seem much more feminine now and you pass brilliantly :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't know how you looked before, but you look fantastic. And feminine and super like the girl that u are
     
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    You look so great! A lot of really positive changes! :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow :slight_smile: You seem pretty neutral to me, probably leaning a little towards the masculine side :slight_smile:

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    Yeah, definitely :slight_smile: In fact, you remind me of someone I know, but I can't put my finger on who. I think you pass pretty well :slight_smile:
     
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    ~Real Questions~
    I posted an album with me without glasses. How do I pass? :slight_smile:
     
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    I honestly think you pass a little better without your glasses.
    I like your glasses too, it's just, they frame your face in a way that makes it seem a little bit more feminine than without them.
    You look great ^.^
    Sorry if anything I said was unintentionally offensive.
     
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    Hello,

    I posted in my album, if you saw me on the streets, what would you assume me to be?

    Thank-you.
     
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    That's tough. But bio female. But I definetely have a hard time telling.
     
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    Same... But you do have a more masculine face.
     
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    Female, a wee bit of thinking, what if this is a dude
     
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    Female, and I wouldn't question it.
     
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    You pass fine in both. But the glasses make you look younger because they look kinda big on your face, which makes your face look small which makes you look young. Either way, you look entirely like a boy to me.
     
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    I'd assume you were a girl, at present.

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    You pass really well :slight_smile: I'd say you were more passable without your glasses, but that's only a minor point, you pass really well in both albums. (!)
     
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    I would assume you were a 14 year old boy, which I guess is what you're going for

    As for me, a waiter thought I was a 12 year old boy last year...
     
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    I'm not sure if I'm reviving this after a really long time, but I have been getting curious about how other people see me. I'm about to go on hormones REALLY soon and I'm curious how I pass starting out
     
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    I think you pass fairly well- the pink hair really suits you! And congrats on the hormones. ^_^