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Do gay men watch lesbian porn?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Emptyclost, Sep 19, 2018.

  1. Rade

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    Well I did gay for 3 years and straight for 20.....going back to guys. I label myself bi/ gay at the moment till I've had more experience with men. I have no shame going from bi to gay eventually and don't see any hurry.
     
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    Most lesbians and bi girls agree!
     
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    I totally agree. This is the same reason why I don't watch much lesbian porn either, unless it's fetish-related.
     
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    Will only watch women in porn if there is a man involved too but then I'm bi/gay....guy
     
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    So no only girl videos or solo
     
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    Well... I'm a lesbian, so I'm not sure my opinion counts in this case.. but I don't think porn is a very big indicator of sexual orientation. It can say something, but I wouldn't depend on it.

    I don't really enjoy porn at all and almost never watch it. For a short period in my life I did watch it though and I like sensual gay male videos best, while I don't like guys at all (can't even imagine kissing one). I have never even managed to watch a lesbian porn video from beginning to end. It's really weird and fake, like other members here said. (Also I can't stand straight videos.)

    When I once told a straight friend she was like "oh so you do like guys!" but really I don't. I'm not interested in the persons in the video or their bodies. Actually I will stop watching when they get fully naked. I don't care what the guys look like either. I just like the passion, energy and... gayness of it. I also find guys making out in movies hot, because it's so... gay? I can feel the energy/vibe of it. However, that doesn't mean I like the particular persons that are making out (or their anatomy). Not at all, I'm glad I don't have to join them!

    So, I guess people can have different reasons for liking certain types of porn...

    All (mainstream) porn is made for men and I remember I once read that in straight porn (made for straight men) you won't often see zoomed-in shots of the guy's faces (because straight men don't like that), but they show shots of men getting off / ejaculating (so perhaps straight men get a general sex vibe of that ?). I'm not sure if this is correct (I don't watch straight porn).
    I think I also read once that straight women sometimes watch lesbian porn and enjoy it more than actual lesbian/bi women, because it focuses more on the pleasure of women than straight porn (but for real bi/lesbian women it is often too fake).

    I don't know anything about gay men watching lesbian porn... but just my two cents that it can be complicated.
     
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    Yes I think you're right I focus on the passion and energy the girls have with each other. Also makes naughtiness and taboo mixed with the desire to be straight all add to it.
     
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    This is interesting to me. You are desiring to be straight while simultaneously watching two women together? So you're not just watching it, you desire to participate in it while it's going on? That doesn't sound very gay to me. Imagining yourself with the women or wanting to partake in it do not seem like things a man who was 100% gay would want.
     
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    I'm a bisexual guy, and I don't really care for lesbian porn or even straight sex porn that much unless the woman is pregnant, which is something I've always had a fetish for. I do sometimes enjoy women solo posing or masturbating. But, I much prefer gay or solo men.
     
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