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Do gay men watch lesbian porn?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Emptyclost, Sep 19, 2018.

  1. Emptyclost

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    And are excited by it. Get off to it? What does this mean for the gays that do? Can you share your personal experience.
     
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    So no ones commenting. I'm just asking for a friend he seems really distraught
     
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    Umhmm. Asking for a friend lol. :slight_smile:

    So in general, nearly all lesbian porn is produced with the intent of speaking to straight men.

    A gay man who is genuinely aroused by that is probably not 100% gay.
     
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    God,no. That now would be distasteful to the point of gross.
     
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    I can tell you that bi guys definitely do
     
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    No way.
    When I was young and still trying to figure out what I was I tested myself by watching lesbian porn. I did get a physical reaction which I didn’t like and I didn’t enjoy watching it.
    Does the physical reaction mean I’m bisexual? I personally don’t think so.
    I have no desire to do anything sexual or romantic with the opposite sex so I consider myself gay.
     
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    Not a gay man, but if you're asking about it being a "thing" like gay male porn and writing gay slash are for lesbians, no. Porn is designed by men for men, and aligns with their orientation, so lesbian porn would be made to appeal to straight men (and some straight women) and gay male porn would be made to appeal to gay men (and some gay women).

    I think misogyny might also play a part, but that's another topic...
     
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    I like to watch all sorts of naked people doing things to each other. That may classify me as a pervert
     
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    Yeah, I don't think this man is gay if he enjoys this. He's probably just a gay leaning bisexual.
     
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    Does he know about the Kinsey scale? He's probably a 4 or 5.
     
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    I don’t think he’d be 100% gay. I’ve heard that porn isn’t a good way to work out your sexuality but I can’t possibly understand why a man exclusively attracted to other men would want to watch lesbian porn, you know?

    Like Love4Ever said, he’s probably bisexual but leaning towards gay...in which case, I personally think it would be okay if he wanted to call himself gay if that’s what he preferred anyways.
     
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    Yeah, I mean it's not like it has a man in it anywhere lol. If he was watching straight people that would have at least one guy in it. But lesbians? That's two women only. Why would a man who is not attracted to women at all want to watch two women having sex?
     
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    I'm questioning but gay porn does absolutely nothing for me. Although if I fantasize about being in it I can get an errection. This is where my confusion comes in. I can simply watch lesbian porn and get an errection fairly quickly and be arroused so idk. When looking for porn I always look for the hottest girl and when looking through gay porn theres never that "oh this guys hot" let's watch this moment. But I would say my porn consumption is pretty strictly lesbian, having a guy in it kinda kills it for me
     
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    This question does perplex me a bit. I love lesbian porn. I denied any gay feelings for the past 20ish years. I am now accepting these feelings for what they are, and they have proven to be strong fantasies on occasion. I had a few experiences with a guy too, so it is real. There are times, because the feelings become so strong, that I’m like....that’s pretty gay and I guess I am too.

    But I still enjoy and am easily aroused by lesbian porn!

    I’m learning to be OK with both. It’s tough when you think there’s only one way in life, you have two young kids, Etc etc etc, blah blah blah
     
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    Well, porn in general is designed to be sexuall exciting . I think it is definitely possible for a gay man to become at least "physically" aroused by watching any kind of porn.
     
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    I'm at least a bisexual guy, I have in the past only enjoyed gay porn and some threesomes with two guys and one women. Your friend may be bisexual.
    If I'm honest I watched so much porn over past 5 years it no longer does anything for me and it left me drained, exhausted and depressed.
    I feel better off without it......
    I can get off without it and enjoy my running.
    Rade
     
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    I actually remember the first scene I ever saw. I think it was called California surfer girls, and itveas clearly filmed in the seventies though it was on vhs. I have to admit I was enamored with the genre ever since. That was the early 80s
     
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    I think for a lot of people porn is a safe way to feel like you are participating in whatever is forbidden or perverse. What's more forbidden to a gay man then lesbian porn? Doesn't do anything for me but I wouldn't be all that quick to take away anyone's little lavendar card for it...
     
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    Same... it's really weird how memory works like that. Mine was an online video involving two girls sharing a purple popsicle in a way popsicles are definitely not designed to be shared haha.

    I don't really like most lesbian porn though even though I did and do like girls bodies. It just looks so over-dramatized and fake to me like it's a parody of itself.