There seems to be something especially enraging about "ex-X" people, I.e. ex-Muslims, ex-atheists, ex-gays. Sometimes these ex- people are prevented from even having a voice and are accused of bigotry. Perhaps it's the idea that someone rejected something that is a part of us and decided that rejection improved their life and now go on to spread the word and hope others will come to reject it too. Are you an "ex-" anything? If not, do "ex-" people rub you the wrong way?