I got coffee with this guy around my age. We talked for around 2 hours and it was great. We got along well and had so much in common. At the end we hugged in the parking lot, and he told me that we should do this again soon. then pulled away and looked at each other and kissed. It was really unexpected for me, and it was only an elongated peck on the lips. I feel like I the walked away fast or something, like I'm not sure how I acted. It was all a blur, but I felt truly happy. I then texted him a few hours later and said "I had a great time tonight " and he said "me too " and I said "I'm so glad ". He didn't reply then and I just feel like I ruined it. Like the kiss may have been awkward since I was caught off guard or my text. Or maybe I'm just overthinking?
Ummm. So you think everything is ruined because he didn't respond to your text?! Yes, you are overthinking it. Your text message does not require response. I wouldn't have necessarily responded either.
Yup! Welcome to the wonderful world of dating! Seriously though, it sounds like your date went just fine. As a rule, people don't kiss people that they don't like. I wouldn't worry that you were nervous (/shocked :icon_wink) during the kiss - I'm sure he was feeling just as nervous! Keep your cool (as best you can) and try not to overthink things too much. It sounds like you had fun! Hopefully he'll get back in touch soon.
Yup! you are overthinking! maybe he didn't respond because he was busy?! Just relax and don't over think it
Yeah I wasn't in the right state of mind (if you know what I mean) when I posted this, hahahaha. But thanks for all of the replies! I definitely was overthinking it.
