So I was planning on going to the nudist guys group meeting this past weekend, but I backed out after giving the chat with my wife. I felt that maybe I should take smaller steps before going all the way. I also felt I had accomplished a big step, but will build up to a time when I can go to a clothing optional guys event.
I am curious- what is a smaller step? Are you looking for confirmation of your sexuality? I too desire that but am unwilling to act.
My friend, you will know when you are ready. I hope you realize that nudist events, even gay ones, are not about sex. Naturalists gather to socialize, hike, swim and enjoy life in one's birthday suit. People are generally very friendly and open (hey, there's nothing to nothing to hide). *laugh* My wife and I just separated. Next month, the second official LGBT function I will attend will be a gay mens nudist party. I have gone to nudist places before even during my marriage. My wife never objected. I found them relaxing. This next event though will be my first as an openly gay guy. There are strict guidelines prohibiting sex. I am looking forward to meeting other guys and having a good time. If you ever decide to attend a nudist event, just relax, smile and enjoy the experience. Good luck to you!
