So I already knew once I was divorced from a man that I wanted to be non-monogamous and be with who I want and when I want. For a few months I was non-monogamous. I'm currently in a monogamous relationship since December. I told him from the beginning I would also like to look for a woman at the same time but he said he doesn't want to share. So I've tried to be with only him and am currently monagamous. I'm having fun with him and the sex is great. I want to ask him if I can start seeing women as well but I am predicting he will say no. I also don't want to fuck up what I have with him. I am not sure I have any particular questions I just wanted to write out what's in my mind. I have cheated before and I don't want to do that. I want open communication.