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Confused

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by TheEd1996, Jul 7, 2018.

  1. TheEd1996

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    Location:
    Puerto Rico
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    I have this friend that studied with me last semester in Chemistry. The first day of class out of knowhere he started talking to me. In the course of the semester sometimes he acted like he wanted to be my friend but other times he acted like he wanted to be alone but after a short period of time I started to hangout with him.

    Sometimes a used to see him stealing glances at me, another day I invited him to eat after class but he said he was busy after that everytime we gor out of class he used to say “I’m so hungry” and we used to walk together to our cars.

    We even went for the movies one day to see Deadpool 2 but we went alone because our mutual friends from class bailed on us. We had a good night (I know it wasn’t a date but it sure felt like one). That day he was very well dressed with a lot of perfume on him. When we were walking from the movies to our cars he told me “I liked the movie if someday you want to see another movie invite me”.

    After that we went next week with our friends to the movies and then to a bar. After we left the bar the group was talking on the parking and at one time I said “I feel like I’m a little bit drunk”. Suddenly he got mad and acted as if he was protective of me and said: “if you know you have a long ride back home ¿why would you drink?

    The next day the group was going out so I texted him to see if he needed us to save a seat from him to which he said “I think I won’t be able to go, I have to go to a supermarket to help my dad” (his dad owns a farm). After we got out of the movies the group told me to send him a text because we were going to another bar to which he didn’t reply. On Sunday that weekend I texted him to see if he was going on the vacation trip the group planned because my car broke down and I needed to go with someone to which he said “don’t know if I’m going but I’ll text you tomorrow. The next day he never texted back.

    After that he started to act really weird. Since he couldn’t go to the trip I felt kind of bad so I invited to a basketball game but he said “sorry can’t go I’m gonna be working from Monday to Sunday”.

    I got really mad because I thought he was avoiding me. After a really hard week I kind of exploded and wrote on the groups chat (I said things I really regret even if it wasn’t a direct message to him).

    Side note: He’s very masculine. I’m also very masculine but I’m bisexual. I don’t know his sexual orientation but one time he told me that liking someone from your same gender isn't wrong. Plus one day we were talking with a friend of ours and her cousin and after a long conversation he told my friend “you should treat your boyfriends the right way or they might leave (he said it while staring at me).

    After things got weird I’ve been really confused and depressed.

    Could he be into me???