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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Dodds, Mar 2, 2018.

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  1. Dodds

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    I told my physiologist but I don't see her anymore. No i don't wamt to tell her or anyone else
     
    #201 Dodds, May 23, 2018
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    That's ok. You don't have to tell anyone, I was just wondering if it would make you feel better as you seem very stuck in your situation but you should only ever tell people if you want to.
     
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    How did it go? Hope it wasn't too painful.
     
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    It was good we just talked bout work ect had sum food thrn went for a drive she give me hug when she dropped off
     
    #204 Dodds, May 24, 2018
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    So you know this woman from work? Is she married? How long have you known her?
     
    #205 silverhalo, May 24, 2018
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    Yes she's married 2 kids . I've known her for 2 years now
     
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    Oh ok so you have some stuff in common. Are you out to anyone other than your therapist?
     
    #207 silverhalo, May 25, 2018
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    And now it's the hols so didn't get to see her again for a week. I have thoughts bout us being together and what it would be like but kniw its never going to happen .
     
    #208 Dodds, May 25, 2018
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    How was your night out ? Were you ok ?
     
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    Do you have any plans for the week?
     
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    can you share the name of he other group for women?
     
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    No plans as such just see how the week goes.what is the other site u use
     
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    I need sum 1 on line to talk to i don't really do over the phone conversation but messages I can do i really wamt to talk to sum1 tonight last night i looked at my goodbye letters to kids and husband:frowning2:
     
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    Goodbye letters ? as in goodbye leaving marriage ?
     
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    dodds,
    please consider that this is just a defendant in time. take deep breaths. would you be open to call a suicide hotline?
     
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    You could email the Samaritans if you really didn't want to call them, but you won't get an immediate response. Please consider calling them.
     
    #216 LostInDaydreams, May 26, 2018
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    sorry, a segment of your lifetime...

    just do it one minute at a time. you do not have to think of the big picture. just what you can do right now.
     
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    @Dodds I've been searching...

    Mind Out, a LGBT mental health service has a live chat. It appears to be online now. They may be able to help you.

    https://www.mindout.org.uk/
     
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    Yeah goodbye letters as in suicide goodbye letters
     
    #219 Dodds, May 26, 2018
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    @Dodds How are you now? Were you able to speak to anyone?
     
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