Sorry don't know where to post this and how to describe the issue well. I guess its more of a physiological one. I have had GFs & BFs, i'm bi/pan. I'm like a weird mixture of super masc at points to super fem at points, its weird i cant control it. when i was with my previous BFs during and before sex i was more fem and so into it, but after we had sex i get really turned off. i almost become like straightish. i feel super straight and think im not really bi/pan its was just a phase and a bit turned off, even though i love him, i know i do and i loved what we did, but like 30min later im back to my normal self. I did have this feeling when i was my GF. I felt straight but then i had to still have to hide me being bi/pan from my family. Before i met my first BF i was like this but emotionally, i could feel straight for days and then suddenly turn bi/pan again. it wasn't until i kind of accepted that i bi/pan before until that stabled out. i felt bi/pan all the time but its just after sex now and occenally when my family and friends are around me. Does anybody feel like this for are bi/pan? Is it that i havent really accepted being this or guilt?