So I am a bit confused about myself and the whole coming out late thing, and was wondering if someone could help me out a bit. I have been openly bi for awhile now, but recently realized that I may in fact be gay(lesbian). My past experiences and feelings have been really confusing since this realization. The issue I'm having is that I HAVE loved men. I also do find men attractive, and can develop romantic feelings for men. But once it gets to a certain point it..stops? I can cuddle and kiss a guy, but once sex gets put on the table I just wanna turn tail and run. And I can have crushes and develop strong bonds with men, but the idea of being in a long term serious relationship with a guy has NEVER been an interest of mine. I also recently realized that even when I love a guy, the feelings I have for him are not nearly as strong as the feelings I get for a woman. ( I actually realized I was gay when I developed my first crush on a girl and was like...iv never felt this way about ANY man. Not even the ones I thought I loved..) Also since my realization I have not had any interest in men at all. So I was just wondering...is it like this for everyone? I know people who have had serious relationships and even been married before they realized. Its so confusing. Thanks!