I didn't mean to label you, sorry! as @silverhalo said you don't have to give yourself one. Some of us find it helpful, others don't. My key to acceptance- it look me a long time to come out- was realizing my romantic feelings for men were also as intense as the sexual ones. I realized that I could only experience that feeling with men, my fear of being gay turned into happiness about it. But I totally understand what you mean about it feeling weird sometimes! anyway, welcome and congratulations about your relationship!