Hi EC folks, Please help me think this through. I've recently told my wife I'm bisexual, and I'd like to be honest with my kids too. She is asking me to wait, and consider what questions they may have and how this will be devastating to them. I know how hard it is for her (still fresh, so still scary and lots of tears). They are in their twenties and out of the house (well mostly, one is still in college and home on summer vacation). We raised them to be accepting of LGBTQ folks, but what should I consider will be hard to hear about their own Dad, or what questions this will raise for them? Should I do this in person (not so easy with one of them who lives far away), or is phone or video o.k.? Would it be best that my wife is there while I come out to them? Thanks to all for helping me brainstorm and plan.