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Coming out of my cage / And I've been doing just fine ♩

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by UnconditionAddy, Sep 19, 2021.

  1. UnconditionAddy

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    It feels good to discover Empty Closet and notice all these other 20 somethings who are affirming their lifestyle on the spectrum. :-D
    I am here because I would love to welcome more bi & les women and gay men into my life. It would also be so good to be a friend to those of you in all different stages of improving your lifestyle to match your heart and soul.
    I hope to make 1 or 2 friends, and have the lesbian side of me affirmed. Definitely looking for a mentor with experience to walk with me as I take baby steps to meeting/building a life with another woman. I also wanna’ talk to bi curious people ( people just like me:slight_smile: ) .


    Being hetero was simple, recognizing that I could fall for a woman is a new and tender realization.
    (I got to, got to be down / because I want it all! ♩ Ahem. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)


    College Student - Sophomore

    Age 26 (b-day 1 Oct 1995) Libra<3

    Strength: Active listener

    Weakness: Disgruntled about having lesbian feelings/hopes

    Seeking an answer to- How would I lead my life confidently if I matched with a woman?
     
  2. LostInDaydreams

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    Hi and welcome to EC!

    Good song. Big when I was at university. :grin:

    I hope you find the support you’re looking for here.
     
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  3. UnconditionAddy

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    Hii. Ohh it's LostInDaydreams herself! When I joined yesterday I was looking through a list of the Moderators and Admins, and you know, it stood out to me because you are also lesbian, realized it in your 20s, and had not had a long-term relationship with the same sex up to the point you came out of the closet. What you experienced is a reflection of the things I am going though today, and you're 4 years older. I'd like to be more self-realized like yourself in the next 4 years. Perhaps I could reach you over pm you sometime after I do my 50 posts and become a Full Member.
     
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    Hi and welcome to the community :blush:
     
  5. LostInDaydreams

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    You’ve been doing your research. :slight_smile:

    All members can send a PM to staff. You don’t need to be a full member to do so. Feel free to get in touch with me if you’d like to. I would also suggest looking at the Later in Life subforum, as you’ll find other members there too who are or have been in a similar situation.
     
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    [QUOTE="FireFox :blush:[/QUOTE]
    Nice to feel so welcomed. Thanks. I enjoy your username. Your emblem looks like a Griffin to me. Very unique.
    Do you know any subforum on this site that is a gem?
     
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    Just remembered to tag ya =P
     
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    Thank you and I've not been here long enough to know which subforums are gems or not, so far I like it all but most of all the subforum chitchat.
     
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    Welcome to EC and may you find the support and friends you’re looking for. I’m sure you will!
     
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    Welcome!!
     
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    Hi im Jake welcome to the EC family !