So I've been recently struggling with the knowledge that I am bigender. I feel that I am both a man and a woman in a female body, and it's been hard trying to reconcile the two while coming to terms with my identity. I feel as though I'm at the point where I'd like to come out to my friends at least (who are a mix of both straight and queer-minded people), but I have no idea where to start. I'd had no idea what bigender even WAS until I explored it for myself, and I have no idea how to tell my friends that I'd like to start using a mix of he/him and she/her pronouns in certain situations. I'm afraid of being rejected, even though I had previously belonged to my friend group as a lesbian. Still, I don't feel like I can continue to pretend that I'm just a woman, when half of the time I feel extremely dysphoric and uncomfortable, particularly at times when I'm male and everyone misgenders me (unintentionally, sure, but it still hurts and makes me uncomfortable). I guess I want to hear from other bigender people or people who have experiences like this to know that I'm not alone and that others have taken these steps before me. ): Thanks!