Hit wrong key......I am still trying to figure out exactly where I am in my sexuality. I do not feel that I am completely gay because I do have some attraction to women, especially my wife, but it is not near the feelings and attractions I have for other men. I am mainly homosexual, but incidentily attracted to a very few women. Whatever i am I will be happy with that.
Welcome! I have no advice because I'm very new at this myself but am happy for you finding more of yourself.