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Coffee date.....

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by hexamum, Dec 5, 2016.

  1. hexamum

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    So, today I had a date. With a woman. Yes!!
    Score number one!!
    It was only coffee, in a cafe....but still.
    We've been chatting over a month online, and it needed to come into the real world. To see if it was actually real. It is.
    There were no awkward silences.
    Score number two!!
    She has awesome eyes.
    Score....nah, you get the picture.....
    An hour and a half went in the blink of an eye!! :frowning2:

    I'm on my way back to the car. In the lift. She grabs my shirt collars and pulls me in for a kiss. Oh...Emm....Gee!!
    The stuff daydreams are made of.
    So...erm....yeah.

    *Toddles off humming*
    (!)(!)
     
  2. YeahpIdk

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    (!)(!):thewave:frowning2:!)(!) woo whooooo!
     
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    'the stuff daydreams are made of...." indeed

    smiles in the distance, day dreaming....
     
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    So good to hear a good story. Of course, it's naturally more likely that people come here with problems. No problems, no forum. But we've been pulling for you. Feels right means feels great. Congrats! :slight_smile: :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 5th Dec 2016 at 12:36 PM ----------

    Reminds me of my first real kiss. Back in the car after the movie. She starts the car, Gordon Lightfoot comes on the radio (old-days Minnesota memory). She turns and kisses me and the stars all melt.
     
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    Woo hoo indeed, that is brilliant, smiling away here as I read it. I was actually coming on to post on the 'I felt really gay today...' thread when I saw your one. My post was to say how excited I am by the thought of my first proper girl kiss and all that will come after it. Since I started exploring my lesbian side I've been genuinely happy, that permanent grin is still there. I've had five or six dates with a really warm, witty, beautiful woman and we seem to have clicked. I'm dying to kiss her. Your date's courage may inspire me to make that move. Now all I need is to get her into a lift.....

    Yours sounds like the perfect moment, happy for you, enjoy the feeling.
     
  6. hexamum

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    I was actually shell shocked. Lol.
    The lift only had to go up two floors!!
    But she said if she didn't do it then, and it turned out I didn't like her, then it was nothing lost and she'd have gotten to kiss me!! *Blush*
    I was all flustered and getting my words backwards!! Lol (which is sooooo not me!!)

    It's answered huge amounts of final questioning in my head. Not that I needed it, but it's kind of dotted the i's and crossed the t's.

    Since the whole process started, I've felt the most relaxed about myself in my life.
    It's a nice feeling x
     
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    Thanks Hexamum for sharing this. Sometimes we need to hear these stories too, and it gives us all hope that we may one day experience the same thing you did. I can't wait for my first real gay kiss. :eusa_danc I hope it's like yours.
     
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    I'm proud of you! Way to go! Love hearing things like this on EC.
     
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    Sooooooo awesome!!
     
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    Ah!!! Exciting!!! Go you!!
     
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    That's awesome hun, I'm so glad it went well!
     
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    Congrats to you!!! :eusa_clap That's wonderful!
     
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    Great news Hexamum! I'm still waiting for mine. Hopefully the year 2017 will see me and plenty others posting ours too.

    I'm assuming you have a second date already lined up?
     
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    Glad you had fun :slight_smile:
     
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    Equally wonderful to read this, what a great thing to be able to say Hexamum, good for you and I know exactly what you mean.
     
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    Not yet, although the texts and conversations point to a whole lot more!! (!)
     
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    I agree!

    Thanks Hexamum, this is inspiring!