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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Ashton23, Nov 25, 2022.

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  1. Ashton23

    Ashton23
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    I do yes. It usually when I’m in the closet but it’s never your normal stuff. It’s always fetish stuff where the male is submissive. I am submissive to men I have found out so I think that’s why. I have no real interest in woman’s private part I objectify the feet.

    On another note been back in the closet for a month or 2 as I’ve moved to a new house and couldn’t deal with all this as well. BUT…. I do know for sure now I am gay. I would have sexual relations with women but I prefer the company of men and the sexual stuff with men. It was a real revelation imagining a male friend who I can hang out with and also be sexual partners.

    I answered my own question now, it does get to a point where there is no going back as the truth becomes so obvious and just accepting the truth makes me so happy even if I don’t tell anybody.

    thank you all so much. Will post a proper update soon.
    @Searching2022 special thanks to you for that little thought experiment that being scared of being caught is equivalent to accepting my sexuality.
     
    #21 Ashton23, Mar 11, 2023
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    I had sex with women for years but it usually felt like a chore and I had to think about other things :slight_smile: I was basically masturbating on of them while thinking about guys. I could probably do that with a sex toy. The real question is what comes natural.
    Someone here once asked me to imagine who I would imagine coming home to kissing and saying I love you. I pictured a cute guy and my heart started racing with how much I wanted it, and I could barely in my mind picture doing that with a woman. That was one of the defining moments here when I realized I was gay.
     
    #22 Searching2022, Mar 12, 2023
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    Wow...!
    THAT is a very good suggestion. So... is it bad that I cannot answer it right away? I have to think about it.
     
    #23 Purple Yoda, Mar 17, 2023 at 7:34 PM
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    not bad, you may be over thinking it... just try to relax and don't force it.
     
    #24 Searching2022, Mar 18, 2023 at 4:09 PM
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