Hi everyone Just now, I changed my Out Status from ‘not out at all’ to ‘few people’ (one to be precise). A few days ago, I came out to my friend of 8 years. She lives quite far from me but we always keep in touch. It’s quite a different feeling coming out to someone who you know personally - it’s more frightening and nerve-wracking but so much more better when they accept you for who you are. I’m glad I took this step, knowing that I have her support means so much to me. I hope that everyone here, who feel they can’t come out to anyone, have that one person they can go to, who they can trust and open themselves up to because in the end, I found it does make a difference.
Congratulations! I had the same feelings, when I first came out to my friend and I don't regret it at all, even though she still needs to get used to the thought of it. It does make a difference.
This is wonderful to hear! I'm glad it went well, and that it's giving you a new confidence. I hope your journey continues to be a pleasant one.
Even one person makes a difference. Now you have someone to talk about anything without hesitation. I don't have anyone who knows about me (not yet at least), but some close friends may sense something in the air. I'm happy that you found the courage. I wish you all the best.
It's a hurdle crossed, so congratulations. Does that mean you will sprint towards the next hurdle and come out to everyone in the new year? Maybe, or maybe not, but that's not important right now. The most important thing is to recognise what you have achieved and enjoy the slight lifting of weight. You will know when you are ready to cross the next hurdle and tell more people.
Yay! I am so happy for you. Btw how come you managed to write what her response was? Was it accepting? I am assuming it was positive. I remember the first time - coming out to my cousin (who is also my best friend). She took it very well, and funnily enough she came out as bisexual a few months later to me, LMAO.
