Hi! I'm trying to understand my gender identity, and I wanted to ask you what you think about these cases (you don't have to fall into the roles I portray, you can give your opinion form your point of view) also these might sound really stupid but try to be understanding because it can do a lot of help to understand a few things: Gay Designer Dilemma Many fashion designers in the industry are gay, and many of them design beautiful dresses and clothes for women. If they think the things they design are pretty and they are of their taste (since they designed them), do they wish they could wear them? if the answer is no, why not? is it because it wouldn't look good on there body shape? or because society thinks it's not ok? or do they genuinely feel no desire whatsoever to do so? Also how do straight people feel about the clothes of the gender they are attracted to? Same-Sex Attraction Dilemma I read somewhere some article about things that happen to gay people, and one of them is that when they find someone they like they say "I don't know if I want to date you or be you". Can cis straight or trans people have this feeling before they came to terms with their identity? This happens to me and sometimes I wonder "Do I want to be strong for myself? Or do I think I want to be strong because I think men are supposed to be strong and I want to be an attractive man? Also another example (this might sound weird but whatever) I'm legit confused: I like having a male body because I feel like it is attractive and I guess I feel sexy. Can I like having a penis because I'm attracted to them? I like wearing men's clothing and underwear and I have wondered the same thing about these too. I have literally even questioned if I'm a trans woman with autoandrophilia. Sailor Moon/Barbie Dilemma I don't remember actually watching Sailor Moon as a kid, but I have some vague memories and it came up on youtube so I watched it a little and I really liked it. Basically I really identify with them, I love all the artwork, the hairstyles and the outfits of the characters, and basically every other thing. The only thing I don't necessarily wish I had is a female body, but everything else I love. How can I like and want all that female stuff but still want to remain a man? It feels like eternal conflict that I can't have both. Thank you!!!! any feedback you can give will help tons!!!