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Can people really cuddle with their partner all night?

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  1. dano218

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    For me personally I don’t really think it’s possible but it’s always sounds so great in fantasy. I am currently in my third relationship though with a man.
     
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    I think it depends on the person. Personally, I don't mind either way. With my first boyfriend, we didn't cuddle all night long. We did shortly before falling asleep but not while we were sleeping. It depends on how partners and we ourselves like to sleep.

    On the other hand, one guy I was dating, he really likeed to cuddle, so it happened that we cuddled and fell asleep. I remember of having woken up during the night, only to find myself in the same cuddling position.
     
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    Its entirely dependent on how you and your partner sleep, I toss and turn all night so no one is getting all night cuddles from me.
     
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    I usually move around a lot in my sleep, but when I'm really exhausted yeah I'll just instantly fall asleep in cuddle position and wake up the same way due to being too tired to move even in sleep. Or if it's cold, because you know, body heat.
     
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    I move way too much for that aha
     
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    There are some people that don't, or hardly ever, move once they fall asleep. I suppose two of those could cuddle all night. Personally, I get way too hot and move too much. Even if I were in to that it's be more like a sleep kickboxing match meets hot yoga rather than a cutesy cuddle session, lol
     
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    I’m very cold by nature, and my fiancé is extremely hot natured. We’ll start cuddling sometimes — this really depends on how our scheduled line up. But never stay that way through the night. I’ve woken him up before because of how cold I get and stay.
     
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    Depends. With my current lover, sure. With my pretty much anyone else, nope.
     
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    I’m sure some people do it. I move around a lot when I sleep though so I can’t imagine it would work out also I get really warm when I sleep so it would have to be on a cold night with the window open.
     
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    My husband and I do. We flip several times during the course of the night. But it's gotten to the point where we don't have to both wake up to flip...
     
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    My partner runs really hot when he sleeps so if I'm the big spoon, we're golden but if i'm the little spoon, i wake up covered in (his) sweat and have to rearrange.

    Most of the time we just do that thing where we lay next to each other and i'll throw an arm or leg over him, which is like the perfect half-cuddle.
     
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    Some people do, some don't. My partner does it and actually shortly before falling asleep he suddenly turns into the most romantic person on this planet :grin: I mostly take a lot of space in bed while I'm sleeping, so I think it's a big challenge for him.
     
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    I'd love to be spooned and "protected" by a strong, loving man at night. But it probably wouldn't work because I'll move too much.
     
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    Personally I like to cuddle. When I sleep I also like the temp to be sort of cool, so cuddling works out for warmth too. Lol. My gf doesn't like cuddling as much as me though, so occasionally we fall asleep and spend the entire night cuddled.
     
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    If someone tries to cuddle with me, I'd kick their ass. I mean that literally, I'd probably toss and turn so much I might kick them or knee them by accident.
     
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    I don't think I ever spent a night fully cuddling a partner. Definitely have fallen asleep for quick naps while cuddling but not a whole night. Honestly it takes me a couple nights to even get used to having someone else in the bed, even if we're not touching.
     
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    I used to do that real bad. I found out that in our sleep, my fiancé was basically latching onto me like a squid. Yeah we did a whole sleep study on this. He was doing it on presuppose purpose and I was kicking his arse.
     
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    No.

    Even with keeping our house at 61 degrees at night year round, we both get hot very easily when we're in bed and I move around a lot. Cuddling would make us both miserable.
     
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    In general I love cuddling but I don't like being touched when I'm sleeping. I also find it quite hard to sleep with other people in the same bed, especially people I don't know very well. I'm also very grumpy in the morning and just want to be left alone until I've had my coffee lol
     
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    I personally couldn't do it. I move around alot when sleeping trying to get comfortable. Plus, I get hot very easily, so the extra body heat from my bedmate would keep me up, because I can't sleep when I'm hot.

    I like the close proximity of a partner when sharing a bed, but I really don't think I could hold/be held by someone all night.