recently I found out I was trans and I told my dad today and it did not go well.he yelled at me called me a girl and used my dead name. Finally he told me if you walk out of this room we'll never have this conversation again I am so upset please help i am in a abusive relationship with my father please help
I'm so sorry that I'm not smart enough or informed enough to offer any advice but my thoughts and best wishes are with you.
When you say abusive, do you mean physical? If that's the case then that needs to be addressed first. On the topic of acceptance, that will come with time. Is there done here you can go or someone you have to stay with when things are bad?