Hi everyone!! I just came out to one of my closest friends and it could not have been a better experience. I took her for a drive and it was really awkward for a while bc I was planning on telling her and I was super quiet because I actually thought I was going to throw up. I parked in front of her house before dropping her off and just said “can i tell you something and you can’t tell anyone else” and she just guessed it right away. I’m super straight passing so I feel like most ppl would be surprised but I have known her for about 10 years so I guess she just had a feeling. It was overall amazing but the only thing that bothered me is that she told me that I shouldn’t come out to my other closest friend. I’m in a really tight friend group of about 7 girls but I’m the closest with these two and when I came out to this one friend she told me not to tell the other. I wasn’t planning on telling my other friend bc she has some homophobic tendencies but the friend I came out to also told me that I shouldn’t tell any of my other friends before I tell her because she’ll be more upset if she’s the last person I tell. Which kind of makes sense because I’ve known her for 12 years and I would b upset in her situation but I also feel comfortable telling my other friends and just kinda want to come out to them. I’m not sure if that made sense but I’m just wondering if I should take my friends advice or if I should just come out to my other friends and see what happens.