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Came out of closet

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Purpleredhead78, Oct 22, 2017.

  1. Purpleredhead78

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    So, it’s been awhile. I finally just came out to everyone in my life. I figured it’s better they hear from me than social media. My conservative Aunt who I was scared about was the most pleasantly surprised response. She said “You know I don’t care if you’re a pink or green rainbow right? My other Aunt said I’ve loved you for almost 40yrs and I will love you for the rest of my life. I’m so thankful for a family that I was born into that is so supportive. My next step is getting my anxiety triggered self to the pride center. I need community because I am coming out so much later than most, I don’t really know anyone else that can relate. Sorry for the long post and being absent for a couple months.
     
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    Congratulations Purpleredhead78!:thumbsup:That took a lot of courage! It's wonderful that your family and friends have been so supportive!:slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! That is a really big step!
     
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    That is so wonderful Purpleredhead78...your the best
     
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    Congratulations! :relaxed:
     
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    it is a lovely feeling isn't it?
     
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    Congrats for sure! It is the most liberating feeling in the world to be able to say openly I am gay. Please continue your great progress.
     
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    Good for you!!! So happy to hear the good news!!!
     
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    I’m in that process now too. And I hear you about trying to find community. That’s been difficult, no support groups for coming out, much less for later and lifers. It’s a pretty intense process! Congrats to you for getting through it!
     
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    Congrats! A very proud moment for you!
     
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    Congrats! I'm so proud of you!