Still struggling with what I’ve been calling bisexuality, but still unsure. I’ve seen it mentioned that some people report having sexual fantasies about the same sex, but no equivalent romantic inclinations. I can say that rings true for me as well, in that I’ve had same-sex desire, but there’s no accompanying sense of butterflies in the stomach or a flutter of the heart like I have with the opposite sex. It’s almost like I get aroused but there are no feelings attached to it - certainly not the same ones as with the opposite sex. I’ve also seen it said that this may be a sign of denial or repression - but honestly, if I’m capable of those feelings with the same sex, they’re just not emerging. They certainly don’t emerge the way they do with the opposite sex - and isn’t it meant to be natural, unconscious and entirely out of our control? Anyone have any input on this? As usual, it’s massively confusing.