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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by baristajedi, Nov 8, 2018.

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  1. baristajedi

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    yes, like a teenager, I process a lot of my feelings through music.

    I’m feeling pretty strong right now making the decisions to break up with my girlfriend. She has really lost a good partner in me, wonder if she’ll learn from this.

    Anyway, give me all your favourite break up songs please

    I know it’s cheesy but I’m really enjoying Telephone by Lady Gaga, and ExFactor by Lauryn Hill is fairly representative of my relationship with her. Lucky Escape by Years and Years... Give me One Reason by Tracy Chapman come on Spotify yesterday, that’s another good one.

    Anyway, thoughts?
     
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    ps I realise there’s no rhyme or reason to the style of music I mentioned... I’ve got a really eclectic style
     
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    Oh Praying by Kesha, love that one
     
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    I'll take a listen. Finding it difficult to listen to music just now!
     
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    Come on friend let’s get through this together!

    I think the fact that she’s made me so angry is helping me ALOT.
     
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    Yes. I'm furious too. I showed her so much love and support but when I was at my lowest point she stuck the boot in!
     
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    Sending love your way....xxxx
     
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    And same back to you!!! <3 <3
     
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    Lucinda Williams - Joy
    I’ll think of others later.
     
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    Not going through a break up, but I listen to sad songs all the same. Lord Huron's stuff kind of breaks my heart and comforts me at the same time. Skyscrapers by lil peep (his music is not healthy but my guilty pleasure). Losing my religion, REM. The less I know the better, Tame Impala (reminds me of my crush cuz she introduced me to that band). King Princess is a talented and very openly out artist, you may like her stuff.
     
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    Tegan and Sara have got me through some sad times; Where Doe the Good Go, I Couldn't Be Your Friend to name a couple
     
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    If you don’t mind Indian music, you can try Breakup song from the movie Ae dil hai mushkil. It’s about pick yourself up after breakup, girl talks about going to salon after breakup, taking care of herself and catching up with her friends.
     
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    Hi :slight_smile: sometimes I like sad stuff but in this case I’m looking for upbeat stuff, not interested in being sad, this woman's not worth it. I’m listening to better off without you kind of songs :slight_smile:
     
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    I’ve not heard this before, it’s a cool song!
     
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    I *love* Tegan and Sara!!!
     
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    Yes! And best played really loud! Glad you like it.
     
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    Same here! Also debating whether I should end my relationship with my gf, this reminds me of this old show Glee, the cast expressed themselves through music, btw I only watched it for the gay and Lesbian cute couple , but

    Beyoncé irresponsible.. Gotye - Somebody I Used to know, Pink - Just give me a reason, Rihanna and - Needed Me
     
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    Happier by Marshmello and Bastille...though it really depends on the reasons for separating
     
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    Battle Scares by Lupe Fiasco and Guy Sebastian
     
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    Where is the Love? - by Black Eyed Peas
     
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