Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for exactly 10 months now. He is a wonderful partner, has helped me through mental anxiety and my jealousy problems. We met up last weekend for the first time and had sex together. I liked it, but my one gripe is that he's really not into kissing/tongues. The problem with this is that I want my sex to be full of intimacy like that, with more emotion and passion rather than something I could get in a glory hole. Our relationship is open to the point where he has sex with one of his friends (we had a threesome at the weekend as well), his friend seeming to meet my needs a lot better sexually but my bf meeting all of my emotional needs and an almost definite long term relationship. Do I just spend the rest of my life having fairly dull sex in an otherwise happy relationship or do I try to convince him to start kissing, or make the relationship open enough for me to hook up with other guys for sex?