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(Bisexuals) Are you more straight or gay ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SomeAverageBoy, Oct 16, 2017.

  1. BiDragon

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    I’d say I’m a bit more gay since I’ve only had crushes on two girls, but it’s technically even.
     
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    I like guys more honestly. But think that it changes with time, two years ago I would've said girls.
     
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    I don’t have a preference.
     
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    hahahaaha this is the question I ask myself everyday.
    And I'd say it's quite evenly distributed. So far, I've had one guy crush and one girl crush with fleeting attraction towards another guy and another girl. So...say what u may, I'm quite gay.
     
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    Yup thats me
     
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    I'm more gay, I prefer girls because I guess can relate with them more :fingers_crossed:and I know how their minds work...:couple_ww:
     
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    Eh, i don't really know, i like both, however i have had more girlfriends, as my current boyfriend is my first one, i didn't really start to notice boys very much till i met him, so i guess at current state, maybe about 50/50?
     
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    Definitely more straight, I could fall in love with any woman and be attracted to her sexually if the chemistry is there. So totally hetero-romantic and less picky but I do have my types that I am super attracted to physically. With women it starts with the person and my carnal desires follow, although often my carnal desires might fire up the romance. With men, I am way more picky, and my interest is with younger early 20's boyish handsome looking fit hairless muscular guys, after that it drops off dramatically. For me, I often ask myself the question more from the perspective of which gender I cannot live without, and that answer is always women. Sometimes I feel like I am a fake bisexual because when it comes to men, the more manly they get (more body hair, more masculine) the less interested I am, except for the muscle, which is a bit of my fetish.

    I will make one additional note, which is that I have a pretty severe aversion to patriarchy. I can't stand the 1950's model of the helpless big breasted woman model as a sex object and as an object to bear children. I like my ladies to be strong, assertive and independent, yet still with a strong maternal instinct. When it comes to men I can't stand macho conservative neanderthals. I often wonder how much this basic aversion influences my sexuality, and perhaps if it was the 1950's I wonder if I would actually have been able to find a lady at all or have any interests in them. I absolutely adore the gender equality and some of the gender blurring that is going on, with women doing cross fit sports and showing men they can do all the same things. In a way my ideal partner is that perfect blend of female and male energies.
     
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    I am easily attracted to men for sure. But there are some women that I really like.
     
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    There are exceptions to this, but I tend to like guys more in a romantic sense and girls more for their sexuality. I feel like my preferences change a lot at various times - sometimes I'm mostly gay, sometimes I'm 50/50 and for many years until I hit puberty I was basically straight. It's complicated.
     
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    Definitely more straight. I'm married with 4 kids. But sexually I like men, not anonymously more FWB.
     
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    I’m equally attracted to both

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Statistically I am about a 1 on the Kinsey scale but I am leaning more towards the younger [18-30] guys at the moment. Its just attraction though as I doubt any would be as lovely as my first and only boyfriend, Joshua, who I met when I was 18. Still love him really - he was way better than the five subsequent girls.
     
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    I definitely tend towards the ladies, but guys, especially singers, can definitely catch my attention
     
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    90 % gay 10% heterosexual :-D
     
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    I'm just me and bisexual. I just fall for a partner and person and whatever they have between the legs is fun and doesn't bother me
     
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    I'm amab but female identified #transition2018? I find women objectively attractive, though I find myself probably heading towards relationships with (not gay) men. I don't want a relationship with females as a man, but I still have this desire to be with women as a woman. I'm still not sure if that's more of a strictly sexual thing, or relationship thing. Part of me feels like I don't relate with women, as a man, during sex because I don't like the roles or how I feel neglected because my needs aren't as important because I can just get off and be done with it. I don't being viewed as a man.

    Simply put, as a man, I'm essentially just gay, whereas if I was a woman it would be 50/50, either "lesbian" relationship or hetero relationship.
     
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    I'm more gay than straight.
     
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    I don't know and I'm confused. At first I thought I'm more straight, then I thought I'm more gay, and now I don't know. I know I like people with androgynius personalities the most, and that strictly masculine people don't turn me on at all. I'm more frequently into women, but my attractions to men are stronger. So go figure...
     
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    if i had to put it in figures i'd say 80% gay 20% straight, makes me wonder sometimes if i am not just gay instead of bisexual, though i've had a crush on a girl when i was younger so i geuss its not the case.