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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BitterEdge, Oct 18, 2008.

  1. BitterEdge

    BitterEdge Guest

    I got an aim today from someone who kept pounding me with things like they knew where I worked, my name and where I was. Then they asked when I was coming home and said he'd talk to me then. He left a name which I didnt know. And then said he knew all my secrets and disconnected.

    I have been posted ads on cl and sent a few photos to people I thought I could trust. I'm really worried someone I know knows and that I might have a stalker/ blackmailer on my hands.

    HELP!
     
  2. Lexington

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    Block the addy, and ignore it.

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  3. BitterEdge

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    I got a new aim address....but this deff. scared me. I think he knows, and I think he lives in my town, I'm not ready for people to find out.
     
  4. Davo

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    Try not to worry about it. It's probably just a stupid prank, the guy most likely knows nothing and is just trying to scare you. Don't let him.
     
  5. george678

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    You should ask him what it is,he wont tell you.
     
  6. Master Hade

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    it is a good confortational thing to say then waht is it... but i say ignore him
     
  7. BitterEdge

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    I will ignore him. Its either one of my friends playing a very bad joke. Someone I know has discovered I'm bi or a random person trying to scare me. I'm not ready to come out yet and it scares me to death I'm going to be forced out. I'm not even sure if its a guy or girl...I feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack.

    It just gives me more incentive to move far away from home.
     
  8. BitterEdge

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    can someone please message me too...I need someone to talk to :frowning2:
     
  9. Lexington

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    I don't do IM, but I can talk to you in Chat here on EC if you'd like. Send me a PM if you want to do that.

    Lex