Hey everyone! I was hoping to get some advice and help from people who have been through this before. I realized I was interested in men a few years ago, and came out to my wife over a year ago as bisexual. Our marriage has suffered a lot since I came out to her. She has trouble trusting me, our relationship, and has very low self-confidence. She really believes that I might actually be gay, and this is just the first step in the process, and that I will leave her later. We've really struggled to get back on track again. I believe that I have defaulted to emotionally repressing most "contradicting" things I ever feel and I'm definitely a people pleaser. I have struggled with my sexuality recently though. As I have given it more space and tried to accept it more, I feel like my attraction to men has gotten stronger. Over the course of the year, I've gotten consistently more depressed, my anxiety has continued to get worse, and recently I've started to have panic attacks. I have worked with a therapist, but haven't really gotten anywhere and I haven't been able to see them recently with the pandemic. I feel a lot of pressure to figure it out asap, because I don't want to "drag it out" with my wife and waste her time. I don't know how to become more confident in my sexuality though. When I fantasize, it's mainly about men and the last few months I don't have desire with my wife, but I don't know if thats because of my mental health, or if it's because it's just a new thing I haven't tried. Any help would be appreciated.